Common Misconceptions

1. It is a shame to be a virgin.

No it's not true. Do you know that ALL girls prefer their boyfriends or husbands to be virgins. Just as guys want virgin wives, girls feel the same way too.

2. It is trendy and fashionable. I can show off to my friends that I'm no more a virgin.

No! It's just the guys' ego wrecking trouble again. Your friend may 'wow' but deep inside, you have really created a bad impression of yourself.

3. "Aiya, my wife will not know whether I virgin or not so why not?"

True. Physically safe huh? Your conscience is calling you....

4. Having sex with many girls is a great achievement! Can brag in front of friends.

Yes, do you suppose they should thank you for robbing them of their virginity? Yes, it's robbery!

 

If you really love someone,

1. Respect her and her decisions.

2. Do not try to influence her into having sex when she is reluctant.

3. Do not pressurize her.

4. Only make love to her after marriage.

5. Show your love by not forcing her into having sex.

6. Even if she's willing, tell her you really love her for what she is, not just her body. Refuse pre-marital sex. This way, she will love you more deeply because you treasure and respect her.

 

RESPECT HER IF YOU LOVE HER

DON'T BUILD YOUR ENJOYMENT OVER HER PAIN